RECEPTION OBLIGATIONS

When the wedding ceremony is over, you will feel so relieved that your duties are almost done, although not yet completely done. Before the end of the day, you will have a few more things to assist with in regards to pictures and the reception. From where the wedding took place, you will escort the Maid of Honor, and the Bride and Groom to the reception. Between the wedding ceremony and the reception location, you will more than likely be required to pose for pictures with the new couple, with the Maid of Honor, with family, friends, and relatives so remember to keep on smiling! The entire wedding party will walk into the reception hall two by two, with the newly married couple waiting to enter last so they can be introduced. Leading the Maid of Honor to her seat, you should pull out her chair, and then gently push it in just a little as she is seated. After the guests have all been seated, the toasts and speeches will start. The Best Man, the father of the Bride, and often the father of the Groom will speak special words. Other individuals may be added to this list for offering the Bride and Groom a toast, or if preferred, the list can be kept short, all depending on the Bride and Groom’s preference.

Traditionally, you as the Best Man will offer the first toast and speech of the evening, which generally includes something special about the couple. You will offer best wishes, love, and happiness among other things. The toast itself is usually limited to a few brief comments to ensure everyone has time to toast and the reception can get started.

Additional toasts and comments from the Groom to his Bride and then from the Bride to the Groom are offered before or during the meal itself. After all the festivities are complete, you will feel a sense of gratification for all the hard work. This experience is an honor and something you will cherish for the rest of your life.